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Age: 26 Height: 5' 7'' - 175cm
Bust: UK 36C Italy 3C
Dress Size: UK 10 Italy 38 Corset Size: 28
Shoe Size: UK 6/7 Italy 39/40
Eyes: Hazel
Hair: Long Black
Star Sign: Gemini
Nationality: English
Languages: English, Italian
Smoker: Yes
Alcohol: No
MY STORY
I discovered BDSM when I was just 16. Already very sexually active, I was enjoying my first adventure inside a real sex shop. I found the shop rather dull and uninspiring, until I found a dark secret room in the back behind a heavy curtain...
My eyes lit up and my heart started beating quickly as my surroundings registered - whips, chains, clamps, leather, rubber and PVC.
At the age of 16 I could only hazard a guess as to what all this stuff was for, but I unexplainably wanted it ALL!
I ran around that room like a crazed child in a candy shop, and left with a PVC corset, whip and flogger, handcuffs, clamps and a start up bondage kit!
For a couple of years I compulsively returned to that dark room to buy more and more equipment, without ever really understanding the reason why. I owned an impressive SM toy collection before I even bought my first vibrator!
It was the year 2000 when I discovered that room, and they had only just started introducing the internet into schools a year or so before, I knew little about it or how to use it to my advantage, and so for the first couple of years after my discovery, I engaged in several failed and hilarious attempts at 'kinky sex' with a few of my boyfriends, but it was hard to take it seriously without a partner that was genuinely interested too!
Then I went to college and studied IT, I learned all about modern computers and the internet, and I learned how to look for what I needed! The Internet allowed me to find the right information and the right people to play with. And after a couple of real experiences it didn't take me long to understand the difference between a real D/S relationship and kinky sex between lovers, and it was suddenly clear why attempts at play with previous boyfriends had been so terribly unsatisfying - I craved a real slave, not a kinky lover.
A normal working life and all its trappings didn't permit me to explore that side of me too fully, but after deciding to broaden my mind and my life a little, I went to live in Barcelona at the age of 20, and everything changed. In Barcelona I met a beautiful, feisty girl, who turned out to be a professional Mistress. I made her tell me all about her life, I was so fascinated and envious that she was able to live out her true nature day in day out, constantly exploring and learning about a world that to me was still quite unknown. After telling her my story and 'interests' she was quite excited to get me in her studio and show me a thing or two. There she attempted to teach me some of the practices on her willing and able subs, but as it turned out I had absolutely no need for guidance, it all came to me so naturally as if I had always done it, or perhaps done it in a past life. My skill with each of the instruments was incredible, as if each toy were simply an extension of my own hand.
My frequent presence at her studios soon led to me working there as a Mistress myself, playing with my own subs and gaining valuable experience, and Domina Jemma was truly born.
Barcelona was too hectic a lifestyle for me however, and I was feeling a little home sick after a while, I returned to England to continue working as a Mistress in London for a while, but despite the home sickness I had felt in Barcelona, I realised that England wasn't where I wanted to be either. I missed so badly the Mediterranean climate! I ended up in Italy purely because I had met some friends in Barcelona from Rome, and it seemed like a good place to start.
I didn't expect to work too seriously as a Mistress in the eternal city under the eye of the pope, but apparently I was wrong. Italy may be behind the times on some things, due to its strong family tradition and religious values, but it had without a doubt discovered its kinky side, and Rome in particular desperately needed a talented, experienced and passionate Mistress to guide its many curious first time submissives. And so here I am, still in Rome four years later, doing everything possible to live and sustain a 24/7 alternative lifestyle, creating my own vastly supplied dungeon, and expanding into the world of fetish entertainment and art. From travelling to all the best fetish events, to modeling, performing, teaching, painting, and anything else possible that permits me to feed my soul continuously, and live my true passion, nature and sexuality, in an open and honest manner.
I receive appointments in my studio based in Via Portuense, Rome 00149. 10 Minutes from the Trastevere Station, at the intersection of Via Del Trullo.
The studio is in my independent villa, it is very discreet with a private entrance, and parking is easily available on the street outside.
I am available everyday from 11 am until 8 pm, to make an appointment you must call me the same day at lunch time in order to get the hour you prefer, or the evening before if you require a morning appointment, although be aware that I am not available most mornings.
If after looking at the site, and checking the FAQ, you still don't find the answers to your questions, you can then send me an email with your questions.
To book an appointment however, you must contact me by phone, a demonstration of respect is expected from the very first contact, and so to avoid making mistakes for which you could be penalised and loosing the possibility of a session at all, and so you should contact me only after having read carefully my rules page.
Refer to the news and contact section of this site for telephone numbers, e-mail address etc.
These categories aim to separate the painful games from the psychological games! Of course that doesn't mean that pain can't also be cerebral, or that a more psychological session can't be some form of sado-masochism, there's nothing like a good mind fucking to get my sadistic juices flowing! It obviously all depends on the individual!
SADO-MASOCHISTIC
Spanking: Over the knee, sensual spanking, heavy spanking, spanking over a chair, bound to whipping benches, & over various furniture.
Paddling: I have paddles of a range of different materials; Leather, wooden, fluffy, plastic, studded & PVC.
Flogging: Sensuale, heavy, stingy & light floggers of various leather, cat of nine tails, rubber & suedes for use on back, bottom, thighs, nipples, chest, breasts, feet & genitals.
Whipping: I have all kinds of whips, snake, single tail, signal, and bull whips to be used on your back, chest or bottom.
(I am happy to give severe whipping sessions :)
Caning: I have different canes varying in thickness & materials, hands, feet, thighs, legs, arms & bottoms. I also offer judicial caning, see below.
Kicking: Balls, stomach, all over body kicking within limits, I will kick the face but only with bare feet.
Slapping: I love to slap a slave hard in the face, be careful to avoid getting one for bad behaviour, I have a very heavy hand!!
Bastinado: Caning, whipping, flogging, hot wax and paddling of the soles of the soles of the feet.
Ball Busting: Kicking, stomping, crushing, stiletto heels, punching, squeezing, slapping,
CBT: Cock & Ball Torture, ball stretching, suction cups, bondage, piercing, hot wax, clamps & weights, urethral sounds, electric shock., irritating substances such as tiger balm or nettles.
Nipple Torture: Teeth, pinching, squeezing, stretching, flicking, biting, suction cups, clamps, pegs, weights, hot/cold torture, burning & cigarette torture, hot wax, stiletto heels.
Play Piercing: Temporary piercing with small guage needles all over the body. My studio is fully equipped with all the necessary equipment for medical safety and sterilization.
Electro Stimulation: 100 % safe tens unit, made by BDSMers for BDSMers. From low stimulation to intense electric shock, attachments for the penis, nipples, and various parts of the body.
Fire & Ice Play: Hot & cold sprays, ice cubes, fire, burning, heat from hot vessels & ice or heat packs.
Anal Play: Butt plugs, dildos - electric & normal, manual stimulation or fisting, strap-on play and extreme dialation.
I am extremely sensitive to foul odours, anyone coming to me for a session of anal play, should present themselves to me only after an emptying of the bowels and a thorough enema.
All of these practices can be performed in a soft or extreme manner dipending on the individual's experience, and most can be performed without leaving marks on the body.
I am open to suggestions for fantasies and practices that may not be listed here, (if not listed under NO on my rules page!) as long as they conform to the guidelines of SSC
Safe Sane & Consensual,
the emphasis here being on the safe & sane.
I will by no means consider requests for things like castration, I have no intention of removing your testicles nor am I medically qualified to do so. I will not burn your face with an iron leaving you horrifically scarred for life, nor will I hammer 4 inch rusty nails into your navel, or engage in any other harmful and potentially fatal practise for that matter.
As absurd as these things might sound, they are genuine requests I have recieved in the past.
The moral of the story is to use your brain when making a request for a particular practise. I may be a sadist but I am NOT mentally insane. I would advise anyone who is seriously interested in practices like these or similar, to seek the help of a professional therapist rather than the services of a professional Mistress.
FETISH/CEREBRAL
Foot Worship: Massage, bathing my feet, removing nail varnish, painting my nails, licking food from my feet, crush fetish, kissing, licking, boot & shoe worship, bare foot worship, foot slapping, kicking, foot jobs, foot furniture, human carpet, full & half weight trampling, & facial squeezing between feet.
Boot & Shoe Worship: Cleaning my boots with your tongue, sole licking & heel sucking.
Nylon Worship: Worshipping my nylons, stocking or pantyhose.
Rubber, Leather & PVC Worship: Cleaning my dresses, under wear, gloves with your tongue, polishing & shining them with polish. Licking, stroking, sensory appreciation.
Smoking: Cigarette holders, cases and lighting, cigars, human ashtray, forced inhilation & burning.
Pissing and Spitting: In the mouth, on the face or body, only if I feel you deserve it.
Foot Smothering: Breath play & forced foot worship with my bare or stockinged feet over your mouth & nose, throat, & balls.
General Smothering: Hand, breast & bottom smothering, and sitting on your face to stop you from breathing.
Trampling: Bare foot or in shoes or boots, half weight, full weight and full facial standing.
Humiliation: Degrading tasks, verbal insults, remote control, forced feminisation & dog training are just a few examples.
Public Humiliation: As described above but in a public setting; shops, restaurants, at parties or on the street,
Forced Feeding: Hot & cold food items, tinned food, dog food & biscuits, half eaten food, food & drink from my mouth, but no substances that will damage the health.
Dehumanisation: Human furniture, objectification, human ashtray, human toilet & stress bondage.
Bondage: Sensual or restrictive, rope, chain, cuffs, ceram wrap mummification for long & short periods.
Enforced Confinement: Be tied, gagged, & locked in a small space for short or long periods, with or without role play scenarios.
Slut Training: Learn to suck my strap-on, dance like a sexy slut, worship female flesh, swallow your own cum, dress & move like a whore.
Sissy Training: Become the perfect maid and learn how to maintain high standards of cleanliness with domestic training and discipline under the watchful eye of a demanding Mistress.
Role Play: Fantasy & real role play. Naughty nurse, school Mistress, secretary/boss, prison guard, military etc
Queening: Contact of your face with my genitals, with or without underwear, at my discretion only & don't ever demand it!
Erotic Tease: Sensual bondage, blindfolds, sensory deprivation, using my hair, nails, teeth to tease your senses, hot/cold play, ice cubes, stripping, dirty talking, cock & ball bondage, masturbating, foot worship, foot jobs, massaging mistress.
Sexual Tease & Denial: Sexy teasing, bondage, humiliation, chastity, controlled sex life, masturbation rules, remote domination, sexual denial - forbidden orgasms & erotic tease.
Body Worship: I allow foot, leg, hand & bottom cheek worship by most clothed & unclothed, but the choice between the two remains mine. I sometimes allow my regular & favourite slaves to worship me intimately - this is never to be expected & will only happen when I desire it & when I think you deserve it. I WILL NOT ACCEPT A SESSION OF BODY WORSHIP ON ITS OWN.
I will by no means consider requests for things such as forced consumption of expired pharmaceuticals or chemical cleaning agents, or any other harmful and potentially fatal substances. I will not expose anyone to harmful or potentially fatal infections. I will not engage in situations of public humiliation that could lead to arrest or worse.
Imprisonment
There are few limits when it comes to games of imprisonment. From a simple police arrest, to a military interrogation, you can be a restrained mental patient, an encaged animal, or even kidnapped from a public place to find yourself in captivity, you could be a convict arriving at prison subject to a cold hose down and an anal inspection, the possibilities and fantasies are endless.
My studio is equipped with a beautiful cage perfect for such occasions, for short periods or even several days!
All that remains is for you to contact me by email with your role play fantasy so we can discuss how to make it become a reality...
Judicial Punishment
In a judicial punishment scene you will be read your punishment and given your sentence, a set number of strikes to be counted as you receive them.
You will be stripped, bound tightly over a chair or bench in a kneeling position and the top of your thighs and kidney area will be protected by rope.
The punishment can be carried out with a range of different instruments, canes, whips, floggers etc, with full force strokes to the end without mercy or stopping regardless of your pleas, cries or tears.
THERE IS NO SAFE WORD!
If you make too much noise you will be gagged.
Judicial punishments will leave marks and/or bruises for some time afterwards. You may receive grazes and/or cuts and therefore bleed. Any injuries will be treated and aftercare advice will be given to you before you leave, you will only leave once you are fit to go.
All equipment is sterilised before and after judicial punishments, I am happy to sterilise the equipment in your presence.
Sissy Maid Training
In a sissy training session you will be transformed into the perfect feminine domestic Maid.
It is necessary an extended session of a minimum of 4 hours, for a complete transformation. The session is divided into 3 parts, first the physical transformation.
You will be forced to wear feminine underwear stockings and heels, a wig, make-up and of course a maids outfit!
You will also be subjected to enforced chastity and orgasm control, as a means of desexualising the male out of you!
After proving to me your feminine grace and prowess in such attire, we will then proceed to the second part of the session, domestic training.
Under the watchful eye of this very demanding Mistress, and also by remote control methods, you will be required to perform a number of domestic tasks within my household, to a very high standard, in order to learn how to maintain a Mistresses home to her complete satisfaction. Other than domestic maintenance you will also learn how to serve your Mistress properly in a domestic environment, how to present beverages or other items She has requested, how to properly set the dinner table for Her at meal times, how to prepare the bathroom before bathing and so on.
The final part of the session is a complete assessment of you and your work.
You will receive points for different things such as feminine grace, the ability to follow instructions, speed of response, enthusiasm for the work and of course the quality of the work. After the assessment, the punishment and rewards will be decided and applied!
All your assessments will be kept on record for continuous reviewal of your progress over longer periods of several training sessions.
I receive many emails on a daily basis from submissives offering themselves as candidates for domestic services.
Whereas I am currently looking for a fulltime personal sissy maid, I will not waste my time trying out each and every one of the 20 candidates that contact me every day, only to discover that 90% of you are useless.
If you would like to be seriously considered for the role as my personal sissy maid and you believe you are really up to the job, it is necessary to book an appointment for a sissy maid training session, where, during basic training and under careful assessment, you will do everything in your power to impress me, so that I have no other choice but to offer you this prestigious role in my private life.
THE 24/7 EXPERIENCE
I generally find that brief sessions of 1 or 2 hours is enough to fulfill most basic fantasies, especially at the beginning of a relationship during that "getting to know you" phase. But sometimes our fantasies are or become a little more complicated and require more time, care and attention.
I understand that most submissives that come to me do so not only to benefit from my guidance but also because unfortunately their private lives do not permit them such a lifestyle. Work, family and social obligations can make it impossible to commit to a fulltime D/S relationship, but that shouldn't prevent you from experiencing and enjoying all the wonders (and trappings!) of 24/7 daily slavery. Beyond the kinky games in the dungeon, the role play, and the punishments, wouldn't you like to know what it's like to fully serve a Mistress on a 24 hour basis, being completely integrated into Her personal life?
This is what I can provide for you with the "24/7 experience" extended sessions.
For periods of 12 hours, 24 or even 48, you can discover what it's like to kneel beside Me and serve Me in every aspect of My normal daily life.
During this experience you will live as and be treated as a domesticated slave at all times, fully controlled, permitted to sleep only in the slaves cage, eat what I permit when I permit it, following My every order and begging My permission for every personal need.
A number of duties will be performed by you, from personal services to your Mistress to domestic chores and public service, and as in any normal session, bad behaviour will be punished and good behaviour will be rewarded.
I recommend this experience only to more serious and experienced submissives. I will always respect your limits in regards to pain and psychological humiliation, and will always protect your health and safety, but I expect you to fulfill any task that is asked of you during your stay in My home. Anyone who fails to demonstrate the necessary respect towards Me, My home, My rules or My orders, will be severely punished and caged for the rest of his stay for wasting My precious time.
If you think you can book 24 hours of My time to do nothing but lie at My feet and masturbate the whole time, or only perform the tasks that you prefer, you can think again!
This is a fully integrational experience, you should be mentally prepared to live under the conditions set for a real slave and perform any number of ordinary or even absurd tasks that I may set you, without hesitation and without complaint.
FINANCIAL DOMINATION
There are many ways to dominate you financially and it will all come down to how far you wish to take it. If you are not seeking financial ruin then we will need to discuss your weekly and monthly limit before I set up your schedule.
I can set up a fining system for your actions such as swearing, drinking and eating too much, chatting up other women, sleeping with your wife or driving too fast, can also be forced.
You can visit me in session and play financial games with me.
You can take me shopping and be forced to pay for everything I demand or face public humiliation and a slap or kick in the balls in the shop!
Blackmail can be used in order to force payments from you, it's definitely my preferred method, I love to make you pigs sweat.
After sending me a gift or donation, proving that you are a genuine & serious money pig, you can then contact me by e-mail to: info_dominajemma.com
so that I may decide how best to take control of your pathetic excuse for an existence, as well as the only thing you could actually ever be useful for, your income :)
I DO NOT offer sex or sexual services of any kind, nor do I seek sexual services for my own pleasure such as oral sex. I do not offer an escort service.
My pleasure comes from your sufferance and servitude, not from sexual gratification. Any emails I receive with requests for sex will be deleted immediately without reply.
The only thing I offer is
GUIDANCE & DISCIPLINE,
I can teach you how to become the perfect submissive or slave in different areas of servitude, using methods of control, punishment and reward, but I have absolutely no interest in satisfying your sexual perversions!
I may not offer "adult services" but my teachings remain of an adult nature, for this reason you must be over the age of 18 to serve me! If you come for a session and you have a pretty baby face I will ask you for proof of age! Fail to present it and I will refuse to do the session!
I will not perform sessions on persons that I believe to be under the influence of alcohol or drugs, so make sure you are clean and sober before you present yourself at my studio.
NO scat, adult baby play, sessions in return for service, sessions including animal waste. No play or reference to minors, and no practices that con be harmful or potentially fatal.
I do not tolerate timewasters, I do not want to engage in fruitless discussions about your sexual fantasies, nor do I seek virtual relationships.
I do not want to go on a date, or for dinner or coffee, I am not looking for company I am looking for serious and convinced slaves who are ready to learn.
Do not contact me unless you are aware of your position, I demand respect at all times, a demonstration that you know how to treat a real Mistress, and that you intend to take your sessions with me seriously.
I expect reasonable warning for cancellations. If you make an appointment with me and fail to attend without proper warning, you will be black listed and lose the opportunity of an appointment with me at all!!
For information on rates and to make an appointment, call me between the hours of 11 am and 8pm
Please use my telephone number with maximum discretion at all times.
I will NEVER respond to private or anonymous numbers so it is pointless to even try. Otherwise if I do not answer it is because I am unable to, so try again later.
Try again later does mean every 30 seconds in conutination, I do not tolerate impatient and insistent people, if I don't answer it's because I can't, I will be in session, or engaged with something else.
If you insist on calling and calling because YOU DEMAND an answer, you wont get an answer at all, ever. If it's really so important then send me an SMS. I am of the opinion that if you are unable to respect me when it comes to the phone, there is little possibility that you will be able to do so in person and so if you insist on being an annoyance you will loose all possibility of a session with me. It's very simple, I also have a private life and I am not in studio 24 hours a day in wait for you...
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I have a studio of two rooms, well furnished and equipped for many varied scenarios. Both very comfortable and air conditioned.
The first room is the BDSM play studio, it has a private bathroom and is furnished with:
* Saint Andrews Cross
* Stocks
* Spanking Bench
* Horse
* Bondage table
* Large steel cage with lockable neck
collar
All my furnishings are of top quality and finished to a very high standard with black leather.
Other than the bondage furniture my studio is
fully equipped with a vast range of toys and instruments, a large and varied selection of each of the most common toys such as whips, crops, canes, floggers, paddles, clamps, handcuffs, ropes and dildo's etc. I also have a decent collection of medical instruments and accessories, electric play units and accessories, gas masks, (fun!)nels for water sports, ball stretchers, masks, hoods, and a whole range of bizarre and particular items.
I don't discriminate when it comes to toys, I have floggers I made myself with untreated bondage rope (ouch!) homemade contraptions given as gifts by slaves, ping pong paddles for bottom slappers and several accessories that are just simple tools from the local DIY store!
My studio is the love of my life, my pride and joy, and constantly updating it with new and fascinating instruments of torture often takes precedence even over my basic living requirements! (It’s an obsession, I know)
So if you really want to earn some brownie points with Mistress then the way to her heart is through toys!
(& shoes, sadist or not I’m still a woman!)
Bring a toy to the session as a gift - small or large, factory or handmade, purpose built or household item, it matters not, any contribution to my greatest love will be gratefully accepted and suitably rewarded!
The second play space I have available is perfect for foot and shoe fetishists, and those that like to play a little 'softer'.
The room is furnished simply but comfortably (also air conditioned) with a couch and My collection of shoes....
This room also has a wooden support beam adapted for bondage suspensions.
As my studio is being constantly updated with new toys and instruments, you can inform yourself on the latest additions by following my blog which is linked on the news and contact section of this site, where every new toy is displayed with great joy!
It can be hard work for a mistress, constantly maintaining her beauty, updating & caring for her equipment & toys that her lowly slaves love to play with so much. Sometimes it’s necessary to treat your mistress with gifts, not only to help maintain and sustain this very expensive game, but also to make sure you please her & adore her as any good slave would...
Purchase a gift for your Mistress from the sites suggested or with guidance from My wish list below, and if you are fortunate enough that I deem the gift worthy... you may just be rewarded...
For information on where to send the gifts you have purchased,
send me an email.
Alternatively you can make an online donation direct to my PayPal account by making the donation to the email address: djannunci_gmail.com. All donations received to this account are used to purchase all that fun studio equipment and the toys we need to play. I tend to buy from eBay to get the most competitive prices. So not only does your donation go further, but you invest in me, so I can invest for you!
PREFERED SITES
Click each name to follow the link:
Gosh Corsets
...
Raw Hide Corsets
Wolford Boutique
Lingerie di Moda
Fabulously Fetish
Italian Heels
Xtreme Footwear
Bound 4 Fetish
Rubear
Cat House
Dream Lover Labs
Le Segrete della
Passione
Nymphomation
My sizes are all available on the biography page.
EASY GIFTS
If you are looking for a small, simple or easily obtainable gift to present to me at a live session as a token of your appreciation for my beauty and prowess, I can suggest to you the following items:
* Jewellry
* Perfume
* Cosmetics
(MAC, Benefit, 2faced)
* Small BDSM accessories available in most standard adult stores
* Nylon stockings
* Elegant smoking accessories
(cases, lighters, cigarette holders)
* Cigarettes
(I smoke Black Devil Vanilla, Black Packet)
* Gift Vouchers
WISH LIST
I love all kinds of gothic, dark, rock, alternative and fetish items, but my own particular fetishes in order are:
TOYS - If you've looked at the studio page then you know that my studio is my baby, and it's a mother’s responsibility to make sure her baby grows :)
LEATHER - some prefer rubber, some like Lycra, I am a skin on skin kind of girl ;) (though rubber comes in a close second!)
SHOES/BOOTS - any style, any colour, the more bizarre the better, but always with the highest heels possible!
CORSETS - although fetish fashion permits me so many wonderful styles, at heart I am a vintage vixen!
LACE - anything from sexy underwear to dresses to shoes, if it’s lacy its love!
DIAMONDS - they are a girl’s best friend you know! Aware that diamonds are perhaps too costly, I would be happy with anything that makes me sparkle!
I am now able to perform sessions in web cam. You can serve your Mistress online, submitting to My every desire, humiliating yourself and punishing yourself at My command, for My pure pleasure and entertainment.
If you are a fetishist, you can watch Me dress Myself in latex, smoke a packet of cigarettes, watch Me clean My feet and paint My toe nails. The possibilities depend on your fantasies.
To arrange the session first contact me by telephone to discuss your session requirements, organize the time of the session and exchange email addresses and to arrange the payment.
If the payment has been made successfully, you will find me in messenger at the agreed time to commence the session in cam.
To participate in a cam session, I require that you also have a cam.
Session Payments
Web cam session 15 minutes 20 Euro
Web cam session 30 minutes 40 Euro
Web cam session 45 Minutes 60 Euro
Web cam session 1 hour 80 Euro
Web cam session 2 hour 140 Euro
QUESTIONS ANSWERED ELSEWHERE ON THIS SITE
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* What can we do during the session? Response
* Where do we do the session? Is it equipped? Response
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* Are there other options for long distance subs? 1st Response
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OTHER QUESTIONS
* Can we do the session in my hotel room / home?
I prefer to do the sessions in my studio, not only because it's a safe and comfortable environment for me, but also because it’s already equipped with everything I could ever need! Furthermore, it's inconvenient because I don't drive, and the time that I spend travelling to reach and you and to return home again afterwards on public transport, is time lost in my studio with other subs. If you can afford to pay for the time I waste travelling, as well as the travel expenses and the contribution for the session, then I am open to discuss it, though I make no guarantees!
* Will you travel further than Rome, or out of Italy?
I am willing to travel to other cities within Italy, and other countries, but always depending on the situation, what you are looking for, how long will I stay for, where I will stay etc. I have visited, holidayed and stayed with many submissives in various countries all over Europe, so it's entirely possible that I will come to you, you will first have to prove that you are a respectful and trustworthy sub however. It will be up to you to arrange everything to my satisfaction and cover the expenses, as well as the contribution for my time.
* Do you accept novices / first time subs?
I do accept novices and subs with little experience though I expect you to be respectful, ready to learn, and to obey my rules at all times.
First time subs should have a clear idea of the practices that they are interested in, I always command, but I need to know what you at least believe you love and hate before I can begin to understand what kind of submissive you are. Otherwise, it's possible that I may ask you to perform tasks that you are just not mentally ready for, ruining your first experience and perhaps resulting in a lack of desire to try the experience again.
It goes without saying that sessions with beginners will be carried out in a calm and soft manner, progressing to heavier treatment and practices when we can agree that you are ready.
* Do you accept sessions of foot fetishism only?
I do accept sessions of foot fetish because I love to be adored and have my feet cared for, but just because you are a fetishist rather than a sub, it does not change the fact that I am still a Mistress, and expect to be treated as such. It doesn't matter to me if you do not have a submissive nature, in my studio I will be respected as I command, you will leave your arrogance at the door and kneel to show me your gratitude for the honour of being at my feet. Don't expect to treat me like a prostitute because as a fetishist only, you fail to comprehend the complexities of a dominant/submissive relationship.
If you attempt to treat me as a source of gratification for your sexual perversions, you will be out of the door quicker than an experienced prostitute can get you off.
I do not ever want to hear the words 'you have to make me come'.
I don't HAVE to do anything, it's my choice, not yours.
* Can other people be involved in the session?
If you are looking to serve one or more dominants male or female, I know other talented and experienced people that I can contact depending on the type of session.
If you are interested in a session with participation from other submissives, it’s necessary to send me an email telling me about yourself and your interests, so I can compare it with others received and find another compatible submissive to involve in your session.
* Do I have to pay for the session?
All sessions have a fixed rate contribution which will be revealed when you call to discuss an appointment and prove that you are a serious submissive. Anyone who believes that it is payment in exchange for sexual services rendered is in the wrong place. Don't even try to contact me.
The contribution is not only for the honour of my time that I dedicate to you, but for the benefit of the teachings of a professional Mistress, and to sustain a very expensive activity.
The contribution is not just for the hour that you spend in session with me, it also covers:
* the 10 hours a day I spend at this PC, marketing myself so you can find me, publishing photos and videos to your request, responding to thousands of your emails and messages, maintaining and updating this website that provides you all the information you could ever need (yes it is entirely my own creation and work) and many other mundane tasks besides.
*The many costs of the website itself, and the photography included in the freely available photo gallery of over 500 fetish images and counting.
*The convenience of my availability permitting you to book an appointment at a time best suited to your needs.
*The costs of this independent, private building, in the center of the capital of Italy, which provides you with the maximum comfort, hygiene, discretion and privacy in which to fulfill your darkest fantasies.
*The costs of the thousands of pounds worth of equipment and instruments in the studio, needed to be able to fulfill your darkest fantasies.
*The costs of your fetishes for this kind of shoe, or that kind of stocking, or the dress made from that particular material, and all the other requests that you make.
I've heard it said too often that a Mistress who charges for her sessions, can only be in it for the money, not for the passion, and this makes me so angry. Other than the fact that BDSM is my passion and a huge part of my personal and private life also, BDSM done at a high and professional level has SERIOUS overheads, and just as in any business or enterprise, those overheads have to be covered in order to be able to operate.
I'm not saying I don't benefit, I obviously do, and I'm fortunate that I get to do something I love and am passionate about every day. But you love it and need it too and it’s unfair to expect me to foot the whole bill for something you benefit from too.
If you want me to be available for sessions with you, and to do all the things I've listed above, then I don't have the 12 hours a day I would have to work in an office somewhere to be able to afford to pay for everything myself.
So you either contribute to the enormous expenses of this activity, or it's just not possible to do.
And really, why shouldn't I be recompensated for the hours and money I constantly invest, to be able to provide you the best possible experience?
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